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QUESTION:
what causes yeast infection in women, and can men get it too? what are the symptoms in both genders?
What other genital infections can men get from women that men normally will not get?
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QUESTION:
I believe I have all of the HIV symptoms! What do you think? Would you PLEASE help me?
I am an 18 year old scared male, who has had sex with very few women. I am a heavy Catholic, but I am not perfect. I've had sex with maybe 3 women and I contracted nothing from them. Then one day at a party this random guy who showed up spiked my drink and nobody knew who he was. Everyone said he looked over 30. All I remember is that he told me that straight men can have anal stimulation that can create a bigger orgasm than from masturbating. I was reluctant and falling all over the place and couldn't really opt out of it. I am SO ashamed. and He fingered me and then for less than 5 seconds he put his penis inside of me. I found the strength to jump off of him and run away at this point.
I am a hypochondriac. I always believe that I have some dying disease. However, this time may be different. I mean, yes, the next day I was sure I had hiv, but then I started getting serious symptoms. I was tested 5 weeks afterwards for hiv and results came back negative and I was happy, but I had Realized that I am not off the hook. I had a genital wart, so I though, but looked closely and there was a hair in it. Then I shaved it and it went down, so I am ASSUMING that it was an ingrown hair...or a hair inside of a genital wart. One or the other. It was on the side, but NOT on my scrotom inbetween where the scrotum and inner thigh is, where sweat builds up. It was itchy and produced a lot of oil. Then, I shaved my pubic hair as I found about 3 red spots. There were not raised and had no pus in them. Just spots. It almost looked like bug bites if they were deflated and completely flat and if you felt it, no bump. Then the next morning I woke up and had dozens of bumps filled with a little bit of pus, I assume it was razor burn. However, some of them appeared in places I don't believe to have shaved, like all the way up to my "happy trail" hair under my belly button and sides. I have had minor stomach problems, but thank God the main symptom, diarrhea, I have not had (knock on wood) however I always have unusual amounts of flatulence and I always have to make a BM. I have like 2 BMs a day, rather than 1 every day or every other day. I have not had full on liquid BMs however, sometimes it has been a littler wetter in texture than usual. It always has like a white film in it, as if bacteria is in it. I know this is absolutely disgusting and I have ashamed of all this. I really do apologize, but I am going crazy over this. Then ANOTHER symptom. I believe I have a thrush tongue. The back of my tongue is full of a white residue with red bumps in it and it appears to go all the way down my tongue to my throat which does cause me a soar throat. I got most of the whitestuff off, but it still looks irritated. I took a test, to see if I had a yeast infections by spitting into a glass full of water, I heard that if it looks like a spider web and collects particles at the bottom you have a yeast infection, and it did. ANOTHER THING UNEXPLAINABLE.....I AM ALWAYS ITCHY. Everywhere on my body is always itchy. My arms. My legs. My face. My stomach. EVERYWHERE. I guess I have flakey skin, and here and there, there are red dots on my body, not raised, just like what was on my pubic area. I am tired all the time, weak, no stamina to do anything, fatigued, but I have a poor sleep schedule and I don't eat as much as I use to (as food is expensive) and what I do eat isn't very good for me. I am hoping that has something to do with it. I have always been healthy. My laptop right now in my lap, is twice as irritating on my skin as it wouldve been two weeks ago. Something is going on with me. I want to say that I am over reacting or exaggerating, but I am being very reasonable and rational. I have a lot of symptoms. I had unprotected anal sex, but it lasted not even 5 seconds, I mean could it really be transferred that quickly into my stream without him even getting off in me? And thrush tongue, I thought it could be a cause from strep throat or something, but my CONSTANT soar throat isn't as bad as a strep throat, which I've had, its more of a tickle that's always irritating...but then I learned thrush causes strep not strep causes thrush. WHY elseee would I have thrush??!
I know the average answer will probably be, go get tested, but I did a week ago. I have to wait until seroconversion or whatever takes place if I have it. So I have to wait for that long period. My HIV test came negative after 5 weeks, but the more and more people relieve me that I don't have HIV, I get another symptom! I WILL get tested, every two weeks. But I want to go into it knowing if I have it or not. Tell me. Do you think I have been infected with HIV? If I am, I want to know ahead of time if it is probable, so I can go into it thinking I have it, because If I am confident that I am healthy and then find out I have it, I will go into a rage and probably kill myself. I want your honest opinion. PLEASE. Do you think that
I also have a dry cough and when my AC isn't on I burn up like right now and break sweat. I wouldn't call it a fever, but idk because my AC is ALWAYS on. I have given such a detailed list of symptoms, I hope people actually read and give me some realistic feedback.
**************IMPORTANT..NEW SYMPTOM.... I looked in the mirror after noticing after the shower that I had the skin under my felt very gummy in texture. In the mirror, the skin under my testicles, the very pink area, in the middle, had a very large brown area in it. I also noticed the anus had brown spots on the rim of it and on the inside it looked very raw and redish/pinkish even more than usual in color. I have symptoms of HIV, soar throat, thrush, bumps on the back of my tongue, dry cough, dry, itchy skin, tired all the time. I have little red spots around my body. WHAT IS THIS?
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ANSWER:
This will seem radical so I have waited until other answers stopped.
#1 sex with men is much safer than sex with women..........womens insides harbor every nasty disease there is including HIV and cancer, and the more men they have been with, the more diseases they harbor. Although men can transmit diseases too, the design of their equipment makes them cleaner by nature.
#2 HIV is much, much MUCH harder to get than "experts" want us to think. Statistics are derived from anecdotal reports: if you were diagnosed with HIV would you report every sexual contact and practice of your life, or would you say "But I only did it once"........that's where the phony statistics come from. In truth, unless you are engaging in insane behavior (receiving from prostitutes, male or female........sex with drug addicts......bizarre acts that create easy points of entry (like cutting, inserting sharp objects in your butt, etc) HIV should not be a concern. In fact, sex with a man who knows he is HIV+ and is on meds is about as safe as you can get since the meds reduce the level of viruses to a point where it's virtually impossible to transmit.
#3 but you must set your own level of "acceptable risk"......I can only tell you my experience: I'm 22 now and have been bottoming since I was 13 or 14. First time was unprotected and I loved it.....later some guys used condoms and I didn't like it so I take it bare as much as I can. If I only take loads from 3 different guys a week, that would be something like 1400 different guys loads in me so far........I have never had a problem. I accept the risk - it is worth it, and I get tested mostly out of curiosity.
Don't let your admitted hypochondria keep you from enjoying all pleasures life has for us - - - better to regret what you did than what you didn't do.
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QUESTION:
I believe I have all of the HIV symptoms! What do you think? PLEASE help me.?
I am an 18 year old who has had sex with very few women. I am a heavy Catholic, but I am not perfect. I've had sex with maybe 3 women and I contracted nothing from them. Then one day at a party this random guy who showed up spiked my drink and nobody knew who he was. Everyone said he looked over 30. All I remember is that he told me that straight men can have anal stimulation that can create a bigger orgasm than from masturbating. I was reluctant and falling all over the place and couldn't really opt out of it. I am SO ashamed. and He fingered me and then for less than 5 seconds he put his penis inside of me. I found the strength to jump off of him and run away at this point.
I am a hypochondriac. I always believe that I have some dying disease. However, this time may be different. I mean, yes, the next day I was sure I had hiv, but then I started getting serious symptoms. I was tested 5 weeks afterwards for hiv and results came back negative and I was happy, but I had Realized that I am not off the hook. I had a genital wart, so I though, but looked closely and there was a hair in it. Then I shaved it and it went down, so I am ASSUMING that it was an ingrown hair...or a hair inside of a genital wart. One or the other. It was on the side, but NOT on my scrotom inbetween where the scrotum and inner thigh is, where sweat builds up. It was itchy and produced a lot of oil. Then, I shaved my pubic hair as I found about 3 red spots. There were not raised and had no pus in them. Just spots. It almost looked like bug bites if they were deflated and completely flat and if you felt it, no bump. Then the next morning I woke up and had dozens of bumps filled with a little bit of pus, I assume it was razor burn. However, some of them appeared in places I don't believe to have shaved, like all the way up to my "happy trail" hair under my belly button and sides. I have had minor stomach problems, but thank God the main symptom, diarrhea, I have not had (knock on wood) however I always have unusual amounts of flatulence and I always have to make a BM. I have like 2 BMs a day, rather than 1 every day or every other day. I have not had full on liquid BMs however, sometimes it has been a littler wetter in texture than usual. It always has like a white film in it, as if bacteria is in it. I know this is absolutely disgusting and I have ashamed of all this. I really do apologize, but I am going crazy over this. Then ANOTHER symptom. I believe I have a thrush tongue. The back of my tongue is full of a white residue with red bumps in it and it appears to go all the way down my tongue to my throat which does cause me a soar throat. I got most of the whitestuff off, but it still looks irritated. I took a test, to see if I had a yeast infections by spitting into a glass full of water, I heard that if it looks like a spider web and collects particles at the bottom you have a yeast infection, and it did. ANOTHER THING UNEXPLAINABLE.....I AM ALWAYS ITCHY. Everywhere on my body is always itchy. My arms. My legs. My face. My stomach. EVERYWHERE. I guess I have flakey skin, and here and there, there are red dots on my body, not raised, just like what was on my pubic area. I am tired all the time, weak, no stamina to do anything, fatigued, but I have a poor sleep schedule and I don't eat as much as I use to (as food is expensive) and what I do eat isn't very good for me. I am hoping that has something to do with it. I have always been healthy. My laptop right now in my lap, is twice as irritating on my skin as it wouldve been two weeks ago. Something is going on with me. I want to say that I am over reacting or exaggerating, but I am being very reasonable and rational. I have a lot of symptoms. I had unprotected anal sex, but it lasted not even 5 seconds, I mean could it really be transferred that quickly into my stream without him even getting off in me? And thrush tongue, I thought it could be a cause from strep throat or something, but my CONSTANT soar throat isn't as bad as a strep throat, which I've had, its more of a tickle that's always irritating...but then I learned thrush causes strep not strep causes thrush. WHY elseee would I have thrush??!
I know the average answer will probably be, go get tested, but I did a week ago. I have to wait until seroconversion or whatever takes place if I have it. So I have to wait for that long period. My HIV test came negative after 5 weeks, but the more and more people relieve me that I don't have HIV, I get another symptom! I WILL get tested, every two weeks. But I want to go into it knowing if I have it or not. Tell me. Do you think I have been infected with HIV? If I am, I want to know ahead of time if it is probable, so I can go into it thinking I have it, because If I am confident that I am healthy and then find out I have it, I will go into a rage and probably kill myself. I want your honest opinion. PLEASE. Do you think that I have HI
I am an 18 year old, scared male.
I also have a dry cough and when my AC isn't on I burn up like right now and break sweat. I wouldn't call it a fever, but idk because my AC is ALWAYS on. I have given such a detailed list of symptoms, I hope people actually read and give me some realistic feedback.
**************IMPORTANT..NEW SYMPTOM.... I looked in the mirror after noticing after the shower that I had the skin under my felt very gummy in texture. In the mirror, the skin under my testicles, the very pink area, in the middle, had a very large brown area in it. I also noticed the anus had brown spots on the rim of it and on the inside it looked very raw and redish/pinkish even more than usual in color. I have symptoms of HIV, soar throat, thrush, bumps on the back of my tongue, dry cough, dry, itchy skin, tired all the time. I have little red spots around my body. WHAT IS THIS?
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ANSWER:
You did not have anal sex, you were raped. The fact that you're worried more about having HIV than the negative psychological and emotional effects of rape is interesting. In fact you having this hysteria could be a symptom of sexual abuse and our bodies do strange things when our minds are stressed. Stress causes, itching, acne (probably other bumps), sore dry throat, heart palpitations, etc...
You need to relax and take this day by day or else you will be a living train wreck the rape has made you into. If you have HIV the truth will come out eventually, but now you need to seek help about what happened. One thing at a time and one day at a time. It's not likely he gave you HIV because he could get into big trouble for rape AND giving you HIV without notice or warning by law. Those are felonies. If he allowed himself to be identified by you later, then I'd take that as a sign he is clean.
It's possible he gave you a yeast infection, but as you say, your diet may be the cause of that. Whether or not food is expensive you need to eat properly and make sure you're getting all of the vitamins and nutrients the RDA recommends. Do NOT take eating well lightly and do some research on this. If you spent half as much time reading up on how to eat properly as you did researching HIV symptoms you'd be doing great.
I'd tell you another symptom I know of, but is your stressed mind going to invent it after I say what it is? Night sweats, but I think that's an AIDS symptom instead.
It's possible he gave you other STD(s) instead of HiV and it is possible he DOES have the virus but doesn't know of it, but like I said, the only thing you can do is wait. Take as good of care of yourself as you can in the meantime and like I said relax.
Edit: Don't forget about the three girls from your past who could've given you something that is just now showing up too. Keep an open mind to discover the truth.
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QUESTION:
Are night sweats a part of HIV or aids? Now I have ALL the symptoms.?
I had a recent attempt rape by a gay man, with me being the receptive in anal sex. He penetrated me, but not even 20 seconds into it I got out and ran away. There was no condom. This was my only "Sexual" experience. I put sexual in quotations, as it repulses me, however I am at risk for hiv. I keep getting the average response that I'm crazy or that I'm full of anxiety and not hiv, infact one doctor prescribed me xanax. However, I get in denial after each symptom, so I don't really see how I'm worrying myself HIV if I get in denial. I'll explain. At first I had a sore throat, headache and cough. Then one genital bump appeared, not on the penis or scrotum, but on the left side between the hip and scrotum and it was sweaty and itchy. Later I found a hair in it, shaved it off and it went down. I assume it was an ingrown hair. Until, later after my 5 week negative hiv test, thrush appeared. Now, I had been researching HIV before the symptoms and then thrush magicallllllllllllllly appeared. k. Then 7 weeks after possible exposure, I got a rash. fml. I was convinced I had it, rather than half convinced. Then I panicked. It was everywhere. It was light pink/red and barely noticeable, but a doctor diagnosed me with a rash after seeing it too. It's been two weeks and I still have it. It's mainly on my chest and arms and legs. So basically everywhere. It is not raised and just little dots. Then above my nipple there are little, little darker, dots in a pattern. I am a book-case of hiv, with all my symptoms. I got everything on time. I got treated for thrush, and it only got worse which is the sign of a more serious condition
Then, tonight I woke up at 6 AM because I was having a serious night sweat, which is what i've been in denial about. Every night I come back a little sweaty when I awaken, and my sheets smell. I assumed from my male yeast infection as it smelled like yeast. Then so I'd stop sweating, I put the thermostat on cool and fan, and ironically broke out into the worst night sweat. My apartment is freeeezing, and I'm dripping sweat, unable to sleep in my bed. Something's wrong. I had been in denial over my night sweats, that I didn't have them. I went to bed, and subcautiously made my room cold, not even thinking about the purpose of doing it. So I didn't expect nor anticipate this.
I know I have a yeast infection (which came along with rectal itching) I have enlarged lymphnotes in my armpits, pubic area, and throat. I have had diarrhea after the yeast infection medication, but everything other than the night sweat was pre-exposure to the thrush medication. I heard night sweats were AIDS symptoms and later hiv symptoms transferring into AIDs. Am I wrong? Research I have found says it's an hiv symptom but doesn't say what stage. I got tested 6 weeks after possible exposure and it said negative. It has now been 9 weeks. My whole apartment smells, I have all the symptoms, but HIV cannot be diagnosed by the symptoms, I know. An unknowledged person will say my 6 week neg test doesn't matter that it takes 6 months- a year to know. A fully knowledgable hiv doctor will say that a 6 week test is most likely conclusive. Some say it's over 80% accurate, others and a lot of specialists say it's over 99% accurate after 6 weeks. My doctor said it could be hepatitis but no agrees that it is a probable diagnosis of hiv. Except me. I might be 18, but I am rational. I would be in denial if anything unless I was "Sure" I had it.
Somebody help me, Please give me insight on whether or not if it's likely I have HIV. I don't care if the symptoms cannot diagnose hiv, I am writing for YOUR opinion. It won't stress me out, I'd rather go into testing thinking I have it, rather than be unsure or confident of a neg result if it won't be. I want to be ready for my result for my upcoming test.
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QUESTION:
Need insight on diagnosing possible std, 8 years no diagnosis...?
I would appreciate the input of someone who has gone through this, a nurse, doctor, midwife, doula, etc...Please keep any nasty or hurtful comments to yourself. This is hard for me to post for the world to see, but after 8 years and tons of research online Im not finding the answers I need so Im reaching out here.
Let me explain what's going on. About 8 years ago, at age 19 I was in a very short relationship with a guy that I lost my virginity to. We accidentally had unprotected sex when the condom slipped off. A short time later (like, a week) I met the man that would be my future husband. I broke it off with the other guy to persue this new relationship. We were intimate within a couple weeks of dating, and maybe a week after that, I had a very severe outbreak of what I thought might be genital herpes. There was intense swelling of the genital area, discharge, and it felt like paper cuts were coving the whole genital area. No blisters. I never went to see a doctor because I was young, embarrassed, and didnt want my parents to find out.
Eight years later I still have symptoms every now and then, but not as severe. Ive never had blisters..ever. But during an outbreak I will get a few areas that will sting and feels similar to a paper cut. I might see the tiniest spot of blood when I wipe, but I can never really see anything on the skin. It happens rarely now, but I notice I tend to get outbreaks when Im stressed.
I have a 2 year old son, and a few years before, and also during my pregnancy I was tested for all sorts of stds including herpes, ghonorrea, syphillis, chlamidia (sorry if I spelled all those wrong!) hiv, etc. i think I was tested for everything common. Everything came back negative. I have had several cultures done over the years, but it has always been hard for my doctors to do it because they can never see anything down there either. I can feel it, but its hard to see anything. All the cultures came back negative for anything. I even had a blood test done about 2 months ago for herpes. It came back negative.
I developed another outbreak over the weekend, and went to see my doctor asap to see if we could get another culture. Once again, I felt the stinging and saw small amounts of blood indicating that most likely there was some sort of sore, but she could not find anything when she looked today and just took a culture of an area to seemed to look a little red. We drew more blood and is going to test again for herpes, hepatitis, and something else I believe, but I forget what.
Im just tired of this. I want a diagnosis. Its been 8 years and i am pregnant again and I want to know if I can risk trying for a VBAC with this baby. The symptoms of herpes seem the closest, but then again it isnt a total match either.
Is there anything else similar to herpes..or even a rarer std that could be causing this? My doctor is at a loss and is almost wondering if it could actually be some sort of allergic reaction. Can any common infections such as bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection cause these symptoms?
I know this is a lot of personal information, but I need some input badly. Im just at a loss here. Help?
Well, my husband recently decided to leave me to pursue a easier life by himself without a toddler and newborn..so Im on my own and no sex for me for 4 months. Dont know if it could still be an allergic reaction to sex.
The symptoms in the article do decribe it pretty well! However i did not have the symptoms only after sex. It might have been once every few months during the 7 years we were married. Also, we have not been together for 4 months and Ive had at least 3 outbreaks...I assumed it was from the stress of it all.
During the earlier years, I would get a lot of tissue swelling. Not so much the past 3 years or so, however. That is a symptom I never saw described as herpes. Also, I always see articles that describe blisters, and i never had that. So that article you posted for me describes it better than anything Ive found! Thank you. Ill research that more, but Id still like more input.
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ANSWER:
YES. It sounds like you may have an allergy to semen. It can actually be pretty severe, even worse than what you describe. But you do have the basic symptoms.
http://www.essortment.com/articles/semen_allergy_100017.htm
As it becomes more common, there is more out there about it. Sometimes it only flares if the partner eats certain foods, sometimes it is a reaction to one man and not to another. Sometimes it flares up with hormonal changes.
PS if it flares other times than just after intercourse, I would still suspect allergy. Switch to cotton underwear and see if that helps. Also consider the possibility of temporarily trying some unscented wash for your delicates like some of the detergents for baby clothes. Seriously though, if you switch to cotton drawers and it clears up you probably have some allergy to synthetic fibers or to latex products if you wear spandex drawers.